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With the majestic mountains, the peaceful Cross and Kootenay rivers, beautiful cabins, a 100-year-old hand hewn log barn and a welcoming open meadow as our backdrop, it was easy to imagine the wedding guests loving our choice just as much as us.
The BBQ and bonfire were pretty straight forward. We enlisted the help of some of the uncles to be in charge of bison burgers and smokeys, prepared a bunch of different salads and filled some troughs with beers. Voila, the food was ready.
The resort had wood for the fire, we set up an i-pod for some tunes and set out a basket of blankets for anyone who might want some extra warmth. All in all, guests enjoyed the chance to kick their feet up, relax after their drive and get to know one another a bit better under a clear, star filled sky.
|Hanging paper lanterns in the barn...|
|Setting up chairs for the ceremony in the meadow...|
|setting up the table with programs and little paper bags of leaves to throw into the air after the ceremony...|
For the ceremony, Duncan and I wanted to get back to his Scottish roots with kilts for the men and classic black for the ladies. With a few bridesmaids dresses hanging in my closet, that I will probably never wear again, I wanted my friends to choose their own dresses, something that they would wear again. The only parameter I gave them was that it had to be black. I thought that the black would tie in beautifully with the kilts. For bouquets, I had a florist friend create 4 unique bouquets with flowers and berries that were red, wild and full of texture. I loved them.My dress was exactly the opposite of what I originally imagined myself in. I thought that the very simple, long, figure fitting, type dress was what I wanted. Nothing poofy or big for sure! Well, when I went and tried dresses on I really did not like the look of the simple, long figure fitting dresses. They were boring and did nothing for me. When I ventured into the poofy department I eventually found the dress for me. It was so comfortable and fun.
Our flower girls wore white dresses accessorized by a simple piece of tartan ribbon tied in a bow. They also carry natural colored baskets decorated with tartan ribbon and filled with leaves for them to toss as they walked down the aisle.
As guests arrived to the ceremony, our friend Dave Bennett played some love songs on the guitar and our wedding “fairy” (a young niece) handed out programs and leaves to throw at the end of the ceremony.I got ready in the main lodge and watched from a second floor window as everyone arrived and settled in. The bagpipes began and it was time! Duncan and his groomsmen were piped into the meadow (after having a few drinks from their flasks) and then it was time for the ladies.
My dad walked me down the aisle and there we were, ready to pronounce our love for one another in front of all those with whom we share our lives.
He said that, “being married is like being in a little row boat together in the middle of the ocean. You have to work together to paddle the boat in whatever direction you choose and to keep the boat afloat. Don’t rock the boat if you can help it. And, if the boat does start to be rocked, help each other out, don’t you both start rocking the boat, because that will only end badly."
Next, Duncan was extremely brave and loving and played a Scottish love song on the fiddle for me! His one and only public performance.
When all was said and we sealed the deal with a kiss, we headed back down the aisle, were showered with leaves and with love. We immediately invited everyone to the front of the lodge for a group shot before everyone headed their own way before the reception.
This is one of our favorite wedding pics. Everyone who has a special place in our lives together in one place, in one photograph. Love it!
One detail that we loved from the reception were the hand-altered (not hand-made) cake toppers that one of our M.C.’s presented to us.
Oh dear, brunch! We were hosting brunch at the lodge where we were staying with our wedding party. All I can say is thank goodness for coffee! As guests packed up and got ready to check out, they wandered from their cabins to ours, some visited for a while and then hit the trail home, while others stayed on for the final event: a raft down the river.
What a peaceful and chilled out ending to a fabulous weekend.